Master Hongyi said, "The person you marry is a result of your own cultivation."
This is not some mysterious theory but rather the law of conservation of energy - your own level determines the quality of your partner.
This is not some mysterious theory but rather the law of conservation of energy - your own level determines the quality of your partner.
- Marriage is a mirror that reflects your true state
▶ Real - life examples:
- Girls who constantly complain about "scoundrels" often have unstable emotions themselves.
- People who find high - quality partners are usually self - disciplined and progressive.
▶ Wisdom from "The Book of Changes":
"Like sounds respond to one another; like influences attract each other."
(You attract people who are like you.)
▶ Action guide:
✅ Write down the traits you expect in a partner.
✅ Check if you possess these qualities yourself.
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Three signs that you are "cultivating" a good marriage
① Being fulfilled when alone
→ People who can enjoy solitude won't be desperate in choosing a partner.
② Judging people by their character first
→ Instead of being moved by someone just saying "he/she is good to me", observe how the person treats waiters/parents.
③ Having clear boundaries
→ When meeting an inappropriate person, be able to say "no" decisively. -
An "immediately effective" method for "marriage cultivation"
▎Short - term (1 month)
☑️ Record three small things you're grateful for every day (to enhance the positive energy field).
☑️ Quit saying things like "All men are bad" (words affect fortune).
▎Long - term (starting from 1 year)
⭐ Deeply develop a skill (your value is the best "love charm").
⭐ Regularly volunteer (accumulate invisible blessings).
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The truth about marriage, Characteristics of the right partner, How to meet the right person, Blessed marriage, Master Hongyi's wisdom on marriage
The truth about marriage, Characteristics of the right partner, How to meet the right person, Blessed marriage, Master Hongyi's wisdom on marriage
